| HOW TO LEARN TO THE COMMUNICATION WITHOUT INSULTS?

To learn how to communicate without insults, you first need to understand the nature of insults. Why do people insult each other at all? What are the reasons and what is an insult?

«Insult» — is the desire of a person to elevate himself, humiliating others, using deliberate and unconscious insults. Who is striving for exaltation? Who wants to exalt themselves here and now? Who has no patience? Who has extreme mental states and no mental endurance and self-control? Well, of course children! A child seeks to grow up and become an adult faster, because in a child's psyche, becoming an adult means being significant.

ATTENTION! Only children or adults with a child's psyche insult and humiliate others! A truly adult person in the worldview does not need to humiliate anyone!
INSULTS — THE OBVIOUS SIGN OF THE CHILD'S PSYCHE IN ADULTS!
The main causes of conflicts are unconscious insults! We don't understand that we are insulting others! The power of action generates the power of resistance and unconscious insults lead to retaliatory insults, all kinds of offenses, domestic conflicts and even violence!

Users in «RussiansPremium.com», noting each other's unconscious insults, using the «Conflict-free thinking™» colored blocksign system in the process of everyday communication, instead of mutual insults that provoke conflicts, are sending colored blocksigns each other, where each color of the five corresponds to a certain group of insults.

COLORED BLOCKSIGNS
orange blocksign black blocksign pink blocksign blue blocksign green blocksign


As a result, delving into the meaning of insults in the process of a casual conversation, both children and adults begin to realize what exactly insults a person and why they should not do it!

ATTENTION! The blocksigns sent to each other are not accusatory reproaches and arrogant moralizing lessons, but a manifestation of care and goodwill towards each other! By sending blocksigns, you help the another person correct their worldview, on which their relationship with people will depend. Life is always a team game, no matter what a person does in life, the fate of each of us depends on the people around us.
BLOCKSIGNS — THIS IS A MANIFESTATION OF CARING FOR EACH OTHER, AND NOT REPROACHES OR MORALIZING!
INSULTING A PERSON'S PERSONALITY
orange blocksign
The group of insults criteria corresponding to the orange blocksign:
  • offensive-humiliating a dirty words;
  • insult based on humiliating comparison with someone, with something;
  • insult based on humiliating distortion of a person’s own name;
  • insult based on «transition to personality» — people discuss the person himself, and not the essence of what is said;
  • insult by unfounded opinion / judgment*;
  • insult by unwarranted distrust;
  • insult by demonstrating of intellectual superiority;
  • insult by arrogant - haughty attitude;
  • insult by «mockery» (I am your king and you are my jester, servant. I am higher than you, and you are lower. A mocking joke on a person.);
  • insult by «status» (demonstration of social superiority);
  • insult by knowingly false libelous information (damage to reputation);
  • insult based on neglect of a person's personality;
* In the process of communication, people share information with each other in the form of value judgments of various events. A person with a child's psyche expresses a value judgment based on speculation, and not real facts or knowledge, while misleading others!
EXTREME INSULTS AND HUMAN SECURITY MONITORING
black blocksign
The group of insults criteria corresponding to the black blocksign:
  • insult of religion;
  • insult based on ethnic differences;
  • insult based on physiological features;
  • recruitment attempt to terrorist organizations, totalitarian sects and destructive cults;
  • suspicion of online fraud;
  • cyberbullying (Internet harassment);
  • inducement to commit suicide;
  • domestic violence;
  • distribution of fake news;
  • panic spread;
  • attempt to create fake accounts;
  • distribution of photo and video materials prohibited by law;
NOTE Using a black blocksign, users, in addition to responding to extreme insults, can attract the attention of other community members and notify law enforcement agencies if, for example, an attempt was made to recruit terrorist organizations, cyberbullying, inducement to commit suicide; an attempt to spread fake news, fraud, etc.
INSULTS OF FEMALE DIGNITY
pink blocksign
The group of insults criteria corresponding to the pink blocksign:
  • Insult of female dignity;
  • insult using profanity in speech;
  • insult with unsubstantiated remarks;
  • insult by non-constructive criticism;
  • insult with unjustified raising of voice;

INSULTS OF MALE DIGNITY
blue blocksign
The group of insults criteria corresponding to the blue blocksign:
  • Insult of male dignity;
NOTE Attention! If a biologically adult male / female has obvious signs of a child or teenage psyche, it is strongly discouraged to say the following: «You behave like a child!»; «This is some kind of kindergarten!»; «You're like a little child!» etc. In order to avoid a conflict or domestic violence, in particular due to an extreme reaction on the part of a man, it is necessary to refer to a specific sign of a child's or teenage psyche and calmly discuss it, adding the phrase: «It is so indicated here. Let's figure it out logically together. I'm just taking care of you. I just wish you the best! Etc.».
  • insult with unsubstantiated remarks;
  • insult by non-constructive criticism;
  • insult with unjustified raising of voice;
NOTE Users using the color blocksign system «Conflict-free thinking™» can technically independently add insult criteria or socially significant issues for general consideration and discussion among userswithin the resource!
SIGNS OF A CHILD AND TEENAGE PSYCHE IN ADULTS:
green blocksign
A group of signs of a child and teenage psyche corresponding to a green blocksign:
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