7 REASONS WHY DO PEOPLE HAVE TO FIGHT AGAINST THE CHILD AND TEENAGE PSYCHE
IN ADULTS AND WHY THE PRESENCE OF A CHILD'S PSYCHE IS DANGEROUS FOR A PERSON IN ADULT LIFE!
The author of the article and the developer of online services in which families with children will learn to the communication without insults and fight against the child's psyche in adults in order to create an environment of truly adults in the worldview of people, thanks to which every child will be able to focus on revealing their strengths for subsequent self-realization in life!
It is important to understand that in fact, each person has two ages - biological and worldview. A person may have a biological age of 35-40 years, and worldview age is still the same teenager!
At first glance, this is not so obvious, but almost all the problems of mankind, from small domestic quarrels to international conflicts, lie in the field of this problem!
7 REASONS WHY DO PEOPLE HAVE TO FIGHT AGAINST THE CHILD AND TEENAGE PSYCHE
1 IF YOUR CHILD GROWS UP SURROUNDED BY ADULTS WITH A CHILD'S PSYCHE, WHILE BEING DEPENDENT ON THEM, THEN HE WILL NEVER GROW UP IN HIS WORLDVIEW AND WILL NOT BE ABLE TO REVEAL HIS NATURAL POTENTIAL, HIS STRENGTHS AND SELF-ACTUALIZE IN LIFE! AS A RESULT, YOUR CHILD WILL LIVE A LIFE OF SELF-DOUBT, MOST LIKELY IN POVERTY AND IN PROBLEMS CREATED BY HIMSELF AND HIS LOVED ONES!
2 IF YOU DECIDE TO CONNECT YOUR FATE WITH A PERSON WITH A CHILD'S PSYCHE, YOU WILL NOT CREATE A STRONG FAMILY AND MOST LIKELY GET DIVORCED!
3 IF YOU FIND SIGNS OF A CHILD'S PSYCHE IN YOUR RELATIVES, YOU WILL LOSE CONFIDENCE IN THEM! AND IF THEY FIND SIGNS IN YOU, THEN THEY WILL LOSE CONFIDENCE IN YOU!
4 IF YOUR FRIENDS HAVE A CHILD OR TEENAGE PSYCHE — THEY ARE UNRELIABLE, THEREFORE DANGEROUS AND WILL 100% LET YOU DOWN!
5 YOU ARE OUT OF LUCK IN LIFE IF YOUR BOSS IS AN OVER-AGED «TEENAGE»!
6 ALL CRIMES IN THE WORLD ARE COMMITTED BY ADULTS WITH A CHILD OR TEENAGE PSYCHE — THE AVERAGE WORLDVIEW AGE OF A PERSON IS 12-16 YEARS!
7 OVER-AGED «TEENAGERS» ARE NOT ABLE TO AGREE WITH EACH OTHER, AND IF SUCH PEOPLE FIND THEMSELVES IN POWER STRUCTURES — EXPECT A BIG DISASTER FOR SOCIETY AS A WHOLE!
LIFE IS ALWAYS A LONG-TERM TEAM GAME, WHERE PEOPLE ARE INTERDEPENDENT ON EACH OTHER, WHICH IS WHY THE SUCCESS OF YOUR FAMILY DEPENDS NOT ONLY ON YOU, BUT ALSO ON THE PEOPLE AROUND YOU!
AND IF IN ADULT LIFE THE SURROUNDING PEOPLE REVEAL SIGNS OF A CHILD'S PSYCHE IN A PERSON, THEN THERE WILL ALWAYS BE DISTRUST TOWARDS HIM AT THE DOMESTIC AND PROFESSIONAL LEVEL, WHERE WITHOUT AWARENESS OF THIS PROBLEM, NEITHER A STRONG FAMILY, NOR A STRONG FRIENDSHIP, NOR A STABLE BUSINESS WILL NOT WORK!
ATTENTION! THE CHILD'S PSYCHE IN ADULT LIFE IS DANGEROUS FOR A PERSON!
IT IS THE PRESENCE OF A CHILD'S PSYCHE IN ADULTS THAT IS THE MAIN REASON:
INSOLENCE AND RUDENESS
CONFLICTS AND AGGRESSION
UNCONSCIOUS RISK AND CARELESSNESS IN LIFE!
| WHY DOES A CHILD'S PSYCHE PERSIST IN ADULTS?In the development of the popular first generation social networks, a serious mistake was made: social networks were inadvertently designed exclusively for the child's psyche! It is for this reason that in the process of online communication, people do not have a psychological maturation in their worldview!
When communicating with each other, children and adolescents focus only on themselves, while each distracts the other's attention, as a rule, on something insignificant and unimportant in life! As a result, constantly being distracted by peers, the child develops an erroneous idea that everything is as it should be, that is how everyone around them lives and that means it’s right! And this model of behavior, the only and, unfortunately, natural for the child's psyche, repeats itself from year to year and becomes the norm for decades!
Further, such communication passes from virtual to real life, in which children are simultaneously at the mercy of the worldview of other children and depending on the immature parents - there is a mutual fixation and obsession on each other! As a result, a child grows up surrounded by people with a child's psyche, and society has an outwardly adults 25-40 years old with a child's psyche, who is not able to take into account the possibility of negative consequences from their actions!
| HOW TO FIGHT AGAINST THE THE CHILD'S PSYCHE IN IN ADULTS?In order to fight against child and teenage psyche in «RussiansPremium.com» in the system of color blocksigns «Сonflict-free thinking™», which solves issues of everyday psychology, there is the most important — the fifth «green» blocksign*.
In the process of everyday communication, the environment of caring people who have confidence in each other — parent, children or friends, showing care and goodwill towards each other and identifying each other's behavior inherent in adolescence, are sending green blocksigns each other, which identify the signs of child and teenage psyche, both in adults and children. (see signs below)
As a result, a person starts thinking processes, thanks to which he becomes aware of his own "adolescence", which automatically forms the psyche and worldview of a truly adult person, in whom self-criticism and responsibility contribute to purposefulness.
Obviously, in economic terms, a purposeful person will achieve much greater success in life than an over-aged «child»!
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A TRULY ADULT PERSON IS A PERSON WHO CONSIDERS THE POSSIBILITY OF DESTRUCTIVE CONSEQUENCES FROM THEIR ACTIONS AND IS RESPONSIBLE FOR THEM!
NOTE it is difficult to call a person an adult if he/she was found to have the following signs!
A TRULY ADULT PERSON IS A PERSON WHO IS FOCUSED ON DISCOVERING NATURAL POTENTIAL (STRENGTHS) IN HIMSELF AND IN THOSE AROUND HIM!
A TRULY ADULT PERSON IS THE ONE WHO, REACHING THE STATE OF «PARENT» IN THE WORLDVIEW, TAKES CARE OF OTHERS, AND IS NOT THE SUBJECT OF CARE!
| SIGNS OF A CHILD AND TEENAGE PSYCHE
THE FIGHT AGAINST THE CHILD'S PSYCHE WILL ALLOW A PERSON TO OBJECTIVELY CONSIDER AND IDENTIFY THEIR NATURAL POTENTIAL, THEIR STRENGTHS FOR THEIR SUBSEQUENT DISCLOSURE AND SELF-REALIZATION IN LIFE!
NOTE Users using the color blocksign system «Conflict-free thinking™» can technically independently add signs of a child's psyche for General consideration and discussion within the resource!
(Author: Boris Belevtsov)
A group of signs of a child and teenage psyche corresponding to a green blocksign:
1 fanaticism and any of its manifestations: ideological, political, national, religious, sports, etc., except for a balanced desire to be a professional in their field to achieve a high competitive level;
2 excessive sense of self-importance; person constantly brags; for a person, the size of something is of great importance, which he measure with someone; a person tends to appear to be something that he is not, deceiving himself;
3 an adult with a child's psyche is not able to admit their own mistakes, the main thing for a person only to «save face»;
4 a person does not permit alternative points of view; a person does not listen and does not hear; he sees only what he wants to see;
5 a person has an 100% conviction in his own rightness and obsession with his own position;
— A truly adult person admits a maximum of 90% of conviction in their own rightness, and reserves the remaining 10% so that they do not accidentally turn off their thinking processes, in which, assuming that he may be wrong, he double-checks the information!
6 an adult with a child's psyche does not realize that he is insulting others; an adult with a teenage psyche uses insults and ridicule, as a way of his own exaltation by humiliating others; schadenfreude (a sense of joy from someone else's failure);
— The ridicule of adults with a teenage psyche at people with a child's psyche is not just insults, but a form of bullying! For example, a group of cowardly teenagers evil and meanly mocks a very young child, knowing that he cannot stand up for himself!
INSULTS-HUMILIATIONS ARE USED EXCLUSIVELY BY ADULTS WITH A CHILD'S PSYCHE!
7 a person uses profanity, including in front of women and children;
— An adult with a child's psyche, a man does not realize that using profanity, he insults a women! Such a man is unlikely to be interesting to a truly adult woman!
PROFANITY IS A CLEAR SIGN OF A CHILD'S PSYCHE IN AN ADULT MAN! SUCH A MAN DOES NOT LOOK SERIOUS!
8 a person does not seek to be balanced in judgments;
—In the course of a conversation, really adults discuss the essence of the issue, and adults with a childish psyche insult each other, shout at each other and quarrel!
9 a person expresses an own value judgments based on conjectures, not real facts or knowledge;
— In value judgments, an adult with a child's psyche makes final conclusions based on unverified information from one unreliable source, in contrast to a person with an adult worldview, who makes conclusions in value judgments, subjecting everything to analysis*, based on verified information from reliable 4-5 sources, referring to real experts and specialists in a particular field.
* Analysis, like analytical thinking, is not something supernatural, but just a comparison of «A» with «B»!
10 a person expresses an own value judgment on the basis of false conclusions on a principle from particular to general:
- just because one cop is violent doesn't mean all cops are violent;
- if an African American is a drug addict, that does not mean that all African Americans are drug addicts;
- if one of the Russians is a drunkard and a rowdy, this does not mean that all Russians are like that;
- if one official is a bribe taker, it does not mean that all are bribe takers;
- if one of the entrepreneurs is a fraudster, you can not accuse all bona fide entrepreneurs who supply products to the shelves of our stores of fraud.
11 a person is not a team player in life;
— An adult with a child's psyche does not realize that life is a long-term team game, where people are interdependent on each other, so such a person does not have a commitment to the team, to people he has known for many years, to the friends, to the family, to relatives, to his ethnic group! After receiving personal benefits here and now as a result of the work of the whole team, forgetting about the obligations to other members of the team, an adult with a child's psyche, in search of greater benefits for himself, easily leaves the team. The reason is that person is not a team player!
For other team members, a non-team player psychologically looks like a mental traitor who betrayed loyalty in relationships! For example, for children, this may be a father who has left the family; relatives who have turned away from a family member who is trying, contrary to their judgments, to reveal their natural potential; friends who did not support a hobby in which a person tries to reveal their strengths, etc..
ATTENTION! In order for a person to reveal their natural potential in life, they must be in an environment of exclusively team players who are able to support each other psychologically, and most importantly, who are able to focus on revealing each other's strengths, but in order for a person to make money, he needs to focus on solving other people's problems, and it is precisely the lack of a team player's outlook that does not allow a person to do this!
12 a person does not have real friends;
— A person has no real friends due to the loss of trust because of the unreliability and danger due to the presence of a child's psyche in a person in adult life!
Life, according to a truly adult in the worldview of a person, is always a long-term team game, in which friendship is the presence of a person's personal sense of need in the want to take care and participate in solving other people's problems, both minor and serious. A person with a child's psyche does not possess this feeling, since he himself is an object of care. As a result, such a person avoids taking on the obligations and responsibilities of complicity in the lives of other people, as a result, remains friendless!
Adults with a child's psyche are not able to cherish the people around them and relationships with them! Most of their relationship is fake: in form — friendship, but not in content. This is the main reason why people everywhere do not care about each other! True friendship is possible only among truly adults in the worldview of people, among adults with a child's psyche, friendship is impossible!
13 a person has an indifferent attitude towards relatives, friends, acquaintances;
14 a person focuses on insignificant and frivolous things for himself, to which he attaches great importance, as a result inflates a big problem out of little things, while he does not attach serious importance to the really important and fateful things in his life ;
— Adults, due to the presence of a child's psyche and being interdependent on each other, distract each other's attention to things that are unimportant to themselves! As a result, such people, without revealing their natural potential, live their lives in vain!
15 a person avoids responsibility; a person does not strive for independence; a person avoids making responsible decisions, including for himself; a person demonstrates self-doubt, helplessness, constantly needs support;
— An adult with a child's mind does not realize that a person benefits from personal responsibility! The higher the level of responsibility a person takes upon himself, the more success a person will achieve in life!
THE HIGHER THE LEVEL OF RESPONSIBILITY, THE MORE SUCCESS A PERSON WILL ACHIEVE IN LIFE!
16 a person does not attach any importance to their own self-organization, self-development, purposefulness;
— An adult with a child's psyche, due to lack of patience and endurance, is not able to force himself to overcome anything! As a result, such a person does not force himself to study or work. For this reason, a person does not attach importance to the development of personal qualities, such as knowledge, skills, experience, necessary in a modern professional highly competitive environment!
17 a person is not able to prioritize in life;
— The main priority in a person's life is to focus on building long-term good relationships with the people around him!
18 a person does not plan his life for more than 7 days;
— A truly adult person plans his life always and only in the long term!
Let's imagine that life is a trip by car from point A to point B! At the same time, a person, driving a car, has driving skills, controls how much fuel is in the tank, monitors the situation on the road, knows the traffic rules and the car's device, keeps the distance, does not provoke an accidents on the road, rebuilds in advance so as not to miss his turn, and also knows how much people travels with him and who are these people and, if insurmountable obstacles arise along the way, he is looking for alternative solutions to these problems! As a result, a person, achieving success in life, comes to point B!
Let's imagine another situation, when a person is driving a car, but there is no route! At the same time, either there is no one behind the wheel, or the car is driven by unknown people, no one monitors the situation on the road, no one knows the traffic rules, the car constantly exceeds the speed, drives into the oncoming lane, provokes numerous accidents, in the car a person is surrounded by strangers, from whom it is unknown what to expect! As a result, a person's life turns into a dangerous and unsuccessful trip to nowhere!
— Such a person, trying not to burden himself with obligations, wants life to be «simpler» and «easier», but in reality his life, and most importantly life of his family, becomes neither simpler nor easier!An adult with a child's psyche, due to the unwillingness to take responsibility for decision-making, does not seek to plan his life, especially in the long term! Such a person, trying not to burden himself with obligations, wants life to be «simpler» and «easier», but in reality his life, and most importantly life of his family, becomes neither simpler nor easier!
19 a person does not focus on their strengths; a person does not strive to be realized in life;
— A person with a child's psyche is not able to focus on revealing their own natural potential for the purpose of self-realization in life! Such a person has a serious problem — an extremely low self-esteem, which does not allow him to objectively look at their natural capabilities (their strengths)! At the same time, a person is absolutely convinced of his own incapacity and, due to the presence of children's fears and self-doubt, rejects any attempts to at least try to carefully understand his strengths and weaknesses. As a result, a person spends his whole life doing what he should not do, while causing damage to society, and what a person has the ability to do with the benefit of society — does not do!
In addition, a person is surrounded by people like him who, firstly, are not able to discern strengths either in themselves or in those around them due to the presence of a child's psyche, and secondly, they constantly distract each other's attention to insignificant and unimportant things for a person in life. As a result, people with a child's psyche become mutual fixation, mutual focused and mutually dependent on each other already in adult life, which does not allow people to grow up mentally for decades!
It is by focusing on their strengths that a person is able to reveal their natural potential and self-actualize! Such a person will not live their life in vain without achieving anything!
NOTE Attention! Often a person is fixated on their weaknesses, driving themselves into psychoemotional stress throughout their life ("I want to be what I am not given" or "I will not succeed because I am small in stature, overweight, no higher education, no connections, money, etc.")! It is strongly not recommended to do this! It is strongly not recommended to focus on your weaknesses! Do not waste time, energy, nerves! The main thing for a person here and now is to identify, focus and develop their strengths, only the strengths, and the weak ones will disappear by themselves over time!
ATTENTION! DON'T FOCUS ON YOUR WEAKNESSES! FOCUS ONLY ON THE STRENGTHS! REVEALING THEIR STRENGTHS, A PERSON WILL NOT LIVE THEIR LIFE IN VAIN, WITHOUT ACHIEVING ANYTHING!
20 a person does not choose their future profession;
— A person with a child's psyche does not take responsibility for the choice of his profession, — his parents decide for him, and working in his specialty, he does not develop professional qualities (knowledge, skills, experience), where the desire for professionalism is the struggle with the child's psyche in himself!
— An adult with a child's psyche does not have enough respect for himself and, as a result, for his work! It is absolutely normal for such a person to allow «hack-work» at work, such a person does not value his reputation!
«HACK» AT WORK IS A SIGN OF A CHILD'S PSYCHE!
21 parents do not focus on revealing their child's strengths;
— Often children are dependent on parents with a child's psyche! If the parents themselves have a child's psyche, then such people are not able to closely monitor the desires and abilities of their own children to reveal their strengths! As a result, in such families it is almost impossible for children to realize themselves in life!
Truly adult-minded parents are concerned about the future destiny of their children!
PROPER PARENTING IS THE DISCLOSURE OF THE NATURAL POTENTIAL OF THE CHILD BY THE PARENTS!
22 a person does not gain life experience, from year to year, the amount of knowledge and skills does not increase;
23 a person runs from problems instead of looking for their alternative solutions;
24 a person lacks elementary patience and endurance; a person is not able to control himself; person constantly complains to others;
— An adult with a child's psyche lacks basic patience and endurance. Such a person is not able to control himself, for him the main thing here and now is to solve his minor problem, and if this is not possible, the person becomes irritable, such a person's mood changes dramatically depending on their own whims, the weather, feelings of hunger, fatigue, etc..
— In addition, an adult, due to the presence of a child's psyche, believes that the surrounding people should constantly take care of him! As a result, such a person constantly complains about life, discomfort, neighbors, the boss, the president, the state, the "system". Everyone owes him. Everyone is to blame. At the same time, the person categorically does not want to take responsibility even for himself!
25 a person does not try to understand the essence; a person is unable or unwilling to focus on a specific thought, question, task, problem; the priority is «form», not «content»;
— The principle “Priority of form over content” means that for a person form is more important than content, for example:
- in form — a family, and in content, everyone is on their own;
- in form — we have been friends for decades, but in content — if a problem occurs, there is no one around;
- in form, a person has a higher education, but in content — there is no knowledge, and vice versa, a person does not have a higher education, but there is a lot of knowledge;
- in form, the network is social, but in content — no one cares about each other;
- in form — outwardly an adult man, and in content — inside psychologically «child», etc.!
26 a person strives for anonymity on the web and in life so as not to be responsible for their words and actions;
— An adult with a childish mentality does not realize that the spoken words are an act! Most conflicts are caused by words!
SPOKEN WORDS ARE ALSO AN ACT! HIT IN THE FACE, AS A RULE, FOR WORDS!
27 a person posts photos and videos online that damage their own reputation (for example, being photographed naked!);
— It is important to note that excessive use of makeup in a woman leads to unjustified expectations for the opposite sex! At the stage of dating, this misleads a man and looks like a deception, which negatively affects the long-term relationship and the creation of a strong family!
28 a person does not attach importance to what environment of people he is;
— An adult with a child's psyche does not realize that among the people around him and his children there may be people with a child's psyche on whom his fate and the fate of his children will depend! Even if a person manages to independently reveal his natural potential, then self-realization, being surrounded by people with a child's psyche, will be almost impossible!
Truly adult-minded parents are seriously concerned about the future destiny of their children!
29 a person does not realize such a thing as neglecting the personality of another person — the highest form of insult and the basis of most conflicts;
— An adult with a childish psyche perceives the people around him as an empty space! As a result, a person unconsciously commits acts of an offensive nature towards others, thereby provoking numerous conflicts!
30 a man does not perceive a woman as a person;
— A man with a child's psyche perceives a woman as a "toy for entertainment" and as a person who must solve his everyday problems — one of the reasons for divorce and domestic conflicts!
31 a person has extreme states: either an egoist or an altruist;
— Egoism and egocentrism are inherent exclusively in adults with a child's psyche! The presence of children does not form in a person the psyche of the parent in the worldview. Even as a parent, an adult with a child's psyche strives exclusively for his own interest and benefit! Such a parent takes care of his own children, not for the sake of the children, but for his own sake. As a rule, in such families, children are spoiled, constantly in need of a competitive advantage in relation to others and remain weak in character with a child's psyche and in adult life! A truly adult, reaching the state of «Parent», takes care of the child for the sake of the child, and not for the sake of himself!
Altruism is dangerous because a person who selflessly cares about the well-being of others and does not care about himself is left without solutions to personal security issues. Such a person not only does not survive in a highly competitive environment, but also preserves the child's psyche in those around him for a long time!
32 a person has extreme states: either carelessness or panic fear;
— In an adult with a child's psyche, carelessness leads to tragedy, and panic fear leads to inaction or aggression towards people!
33 a person has extreme states: either a pessimist or an optimist;
— An adult with a child's psyche, pessimistic or optimistic, does not strive for balanced judgments, thereby misleading himself and others! In fact, depending on the circumstances, to a certain extent, a person should be both a pessimist and an optimist at the same time, where optimism motivates a person to act and move forward, and pessimism allows you to analyze and prepare for the situation if something goes wrong!
34 a person has extreme states: either you are with us, or you are against us;
— An adult with a child's psyche is categorical in relation to others — either you are with us, or you are against us! At the same time, the person does not care what qualities the opponent has positive or negative. As a result, one hundred percent devoted friendship with people without their positive qualities, or one hundred percent hostility with people whose reasoned criticism a person does not want to hear, leads to destructive consequences, to a split in society according to the principle: «If you are not with us, then you are our enemy!».
35 a person has extreme states: either high self-esteem or low self-esteem;
— A person with an inflated self-esteem in the eyes of others looks confident, which allows him, without having talent, professional knowledge and experience, to achieve significant results in life. Much worse is the situation with low self-esteem, when a person with talent, professional knowledge and experience does not make efforts to build their own career, as a result, his place in society is occupied by a person with an inflated self-esteem!
36 a person characterized by submissive thoughtless diligence and mindless implementation;
— Adults with a child's psyche are easily manipulated! Such people easily succumb to the actions of fraudsters, become victims of financial pyramids, religious sects, destructive cults, can easily fall under the influence of criminal elements and may not even suspect that they are being used. As a rule, adults with a teenage psyche manipulate people with a child's psyche, in other words, overage "teenagers" parasitize on very "little" ones!
37 an adult with a child's psyche litters; fights; smokes; uses alcohol and drugs; seeks to purchase a firearm for the sake of a competitive advantage;
— An adult with a child's psyche litters in a public place; fights on the street and is the instigator of domestic violence, where a person uses beating others as a way of self-aggrandizement; smokes (really adults do not smoke!); drinks alcohol without a reason, without control, alone; in a state of intoxication does not keep himself in hand, is aggressive; uses drugs of any strength.
— An adult with a child's psyche makes tattoos, which he/she will regret in the future, besides, he/she does not understand that the presence of tattoos most often negatively affects a person's fate. It will not be easy for people with tattoos to get a decent job and build a career. It will be more difficult for a girl with tattoos to marry a serious person to create a prosperous family.
— An adult man with a child's psyche, in order to compensate for the lack of masculinity and in order to gain a competitive advantage over other men on the street, seeks to acquire pneumatic, gas, traumatic, hunting weapons without the subsequent purpose of going hunting, including for the purpose of entertainment for shooting at cans!
NOTE The presence of firearms among civilians leads to psychological stress due to an excessive fear of being shot, for example, by a neighbor in a supermarket! All this in society even more generates mutual distrust, fear and tension, which ultimately leads adults with a child's psyche to a psychological breakdown, where, due to a minor conflict, people start shooting at each other!
In addition, in order to get rid of constant fear and overstrain from social disorder in life, adults with a child's psyche begin to use alcohol and drugs, and everything repeats itself! At the same time, it is difficult for people to communicate with each other: in society, no one communicates, or communication is formal, artificial, in which adults with a child's psyche do not care about each other!
A person can have a firearm only if the person really has the psyche of a truly adult person, and also if the person serves in law enforcement agencies or the army!
38 a person does not realize the value of their own culture, language, identity;
— An adult with a child's psyche does not realize that the preservation of their own culture and language lies in the area of safety of their own kind, where passing the baton from father to son from generation to generation, each of the ancestors contributed to the common cause for the sake of preserving the life of future generations!
— An adult with a child's psyche does not realize that, unlike the spiritual, the material world is numerous solutions to the safety of the physical body, namely: the need to take responsibility for making decisions on the organization of housing, production of food, water, heat, transport, information, communication , education, medicine, entertainment*, etc., and this is the solution to the issues of personal safety, the safety of your family, kind, ethnic group, state, humanity as a whole!
* «Entertainment» here is a psychological relief and refers to the solution of issues of safety of psychological health of a person.
There are always three factors at the heart of a person's decision making:
1. personal safety issues;
2. «save face» (this factor reveals in a person signs of a child's psyche!);
3. in the power of forced decisions, when a person is dependent on the first and second factors.
The force of action generates the force of reaction! A person can himself provoke actions of an undesirable nature against himself, plunging the opponent into the power of forced decisions! If a person decides questions of personal security, the security of his family, a kind, state at the expense of the security of the family of another person, kind, state, then in this case the opposite side is at the mercy of forced decisions and is forced to exert pressure in response, for example, by using force, which leads to domestic conflicts, street clashes, and even to international wars!
39 a person has a desire to gain a competitive advantage over other members of society;
— In an adult with a teenage psyche, an excessive sense of childish fear that he simply will not survive among his own kind, leads to the desire to gain a competitive advantage in life over other members of society at any cost!
For this reason, a person seeks to obtain a high status in society, for example: to make a career for himself and his children, not according to their abilities, but according to their acquaintance; strives to become famous and popular not for the love of art, but for the sake of privileges in society, making his life more profitable; strives to become an «imaginary» leader, a «big» boss, an official in power, not in order to responsibly solve the problems of others, but for the sake of personal safety* and personal benefit!
*The presence of power in a person who is not able to solve their own problems provides an opportunity to solve them, and it is difficult to demand from a person with a child and teenage psyche to solve the problems of other people, if a person has come to the power to solve their own!
Often such people, using the tool of corruption, strive to enrich themselves for the sake of one goal - to buy all the solutions for personal safety and the safety of their families, thereby gaining a competitive advantage over other people! The response is obvious — in the eyes of society, people with an undeserved competitive advantage are unreliable, dangerous and, accordingly, their family members will always be disrespected due to lack of trust, as a result of which the living conditions of their families instead of safe ones, on the contrary, will become dangerous!
ONLY TRULY ADULTS WHO ARE ABLE TO SOLVE THE PROBLEMS OF OTHER PEOPLE SHOULD BE IN POWER!
40 a person seeks to commit criminal acts;
— Due to the presence of a child's psyche, a person has a desire to undeservedly gain a competitive advantage over other people in order to live better! As a result, such a person, who is prone to easy money, is easily involved in criminal activities ranging from petty offenses to organizing criminal gangs, corruption and fraudulent schemes!
Among such people, capable of an act, striving to prove their social significance to their peers, as a rule, there are strong-willed, talented people who, if they revealed their natural potential and self-realized in public life, would achieve much greater success than their peers! Unfortunately, the owners of a deceptive model of worldview that are destructive for themselves and those around them end up with disrespect in society and imprisonment!
In addition, the psychology of a person who seeks to commit criminal acts is based from childhood on the conflict between the poor and the rich, in which it is believed that the rich have a competitive advantage over the poor to solve the security issues of their families by simply buying these solutions. At the same time, it is believed in society that all those participating in the competition for survival should be legally in equal conditions, in conditions of fair competition, which in fact does not correspond to reality - in fact, the families of the poor and the rich run different distances! As a result, this leads to massive indignation, and as a result to class hatred, which forms criminal psychology in a person!
41 a person has a senseless waste of money;
— Seeking here and now to get insignificant benefits, an adult with a child's psyche, who is already in financial difficulties, thoughtlessly wastes his own money on entertainment and toys! ATTENTION! It is not recommended to give large sums of money to adults with a child's psyche!
42 a person does not perceive earnings as a reward for creative work and contribution to solving issues of General security;
— An adult with a child's psyche does not understand that money is numbers, with the help of which people measure the contribution of each to the solution of issues of general safety: to the production of food, water, heat, housing, etc.! In addition, he does not understand that by agreeing to a particular salary, a person gives himself an assessment — his knowledge, skills and experience!
43 a person is not aware of the origin of the products on the shelves in stores;
— An adult with a child's psyche does not realize where the products on the shelves in stores come from! He absolutely does not care that behind each product is the fate of a particular person who was not afraid to spend their own strength, knowledge, money, time, health, patience, as well as to take on the risks and obligations of organizing the production of a particular product or service that solves public safety issues, and in case of failure of the business may lose everything!
44 an adult with a child's psyche is not able to understand that
- their skin color;
- their nationality;
- their sex;
- their physiology;
- their parents;
- their birthplace;
- their social status
* During the first 14 years, the child is completely dependent on his parents! If a child is in circumstances in which, through no fault of his own, he does not have access to sports clubs, creative circles, music schools, etc., while a child from a low-income family living in a small provincial town and being under the influence of the "street" surrounded by adults with a child's psyche, then it is practically and technically impossible to reveal to such a child their own strengths for the purpose of self-realization in life!
ATTENTION! THE CHILD PSYCHE IN ADULTS — THE TRUE CAUSES OF RACISM, FACISM, ANTI-SEMITISM, CHAUVINISM, AMERICANOPHOBIA, RUSSOPHOBIA, XENOPHOBIA, ETC.!
ATTENTION! LARGE MONEYS, VEHICLE CONTROL, ALCOHOL, DRUGS, WEAPONS, PUBLICITY, CONTROL LEVERS AND POWER — IT IS STRONGLY NOT RECOMMENDED FOR ADULTS WITH A CHILD'S PSYCHE!
NOTE Users using the color blocksign system «Conflict-free thinking™» can technically independently add signs of a child's psyche for General consideration and discussion within the resource!